Hey, guess what? Your buddy destroyed her infant AND she additionally most likely simply provided delivery or experienced some sort of excruciating physical experience. Therefore combined with the overwhelming grief, sheвЂ™s coping with the same boatload of weird stuff that women cope with after delivery, and she probably struggles to think of self-care now. It was among the solitary most helpful items that anyone did for me personally.
The best presents (yes, IвЂ™m calling these gems GIFT IDEAS) on the internet that I got from friends after we lost Afton were medical and very weird and now IвЂ™m going to write them:
- c-section underwear (youвЂ™re greeting)
- high-waisted pants that are soft like, 80 pairs of soft jeans (if debating in the size, bigger = better.)
- magnesium gummies that are chewy assistance with rest
- attention mask, additionally for sleep
- essential natural oils for relaxing, sleep, etc.